life goes on…

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Sometimes, dahil sa mga pangyayari sa buhay mo kung saan you’ve been heart broken o nasimulang masugatan ang puso mo maraming mga bagay ang nagsisimulang kumausap sa iyo. Words na kadalasan ay nagsusumigaw kung ano ba dapat mong gawin. Kung necessary ba na magmove on ka, magpakatanga, o maniwala at sumunod sa mga naririnig mo at nababasa.

Siguro, this years’ love month na ang pinaka malungkot na nangyari sa buhay ko. Sabi nga nila, “things change, so does people!” Kung saan ang change na iyon eh nangyayari right away ng walang pakundangan.

Noong panahong malungkot ako ito ang nabasa ko, “No matter how bad you feel, loneliness will fade and even disappear when you focus your attention on things you’d like to explore. There’s a whole world out there. Sometimes it’s better to have time alone, to have the complete freedom to do things, without worrying about what other people will say. In the end, you don’t really have to think of yourself as a lonely person… just someone who has been given enough space to grow!” Tama nga naman, dahil sa panahong igugugol mo sa sarili mo makikita mo ang mga bagay bagay kung saan malilinawan ka at mas mag-lead pa ito sa iyo sa tamang landas.

Then, therefore I conclude that being alone sometimes gives us space to grow. Minsan kasi its hard to grow when you’re too close to someone. Sabi nga nila “trees are planted far from each other sothey can spread their branches and be mature.”

One time narealize ko din na may mga taong andiyan talaga sa tabi mo at hindi ka pababayaan. At naisip ko na “there will come a point sa buhay ko na ill get tired of chasing everyone, trying to fix everything. Its not giving up, its just a realization na hindi ko pala kailangan lahat ng taong hinahanap ko, dahil what I really need are those who stood by me even if I never needed them.”

Ngayong valentine naging malinaw sa akin na “the best part of being in love is when you just love a person and be happy about it, even if that person can never be yours, or kahit alam mong hindi siya magtatagal sa iyo.” Kasi for me “it’s the true meaning of LOVE. Its not about winning someone. Its not about owning a relationship. Its just about being happy kasi alam mo sa sarili mo na nagmahal ka.” Kung baga, “you just love and love unselfishly.”

Siyempre habang nagmomont ka at nanood ng mga palabas na makakapagpalubag loob sa iyo may natututunan ka. Isa na dito ang dialogue ni Spongebob at Patrick.

Spongebob: “What do you usually do when I’m gone?”

Patrick: “Wait for you to come back”

Hindi ba ang sweet? Sana lahat nalang ganito… pero hindi… kasi magkakaiba tayo.

At mga matinding reflections sa life ang makikita mo 1) Sometimes, God breaks our spirit to save our soul. 2) He breaks our heart para mabuo o magmature tayo. 3) He sends us pain so we can be stronger. 4) Binibigyan niya tayo ng failure so we can be humble. 5) Binibigyan din ng sakit para maalagaan natin mga sarili natin. 6) At minsan, He takes EVERYTHING away from us so we can learn the value of EVERYTHING we have.

Higit sa lahat… “the best feeling in the world is realizing you are perfectly happy without the thing you thought you needed the most” Well in fact hindi naman ganoon ang buhay. Bilog ang mundo maraming dahilan para maging masaya. Kung kaya’t kahit feeling ko medyo weak parin ako alam ko lilipas din ito…

Maligayang Araw ng mga Puso!

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