what woman should know

A man won’t let go if he really loves
you.
Do not hold on to someone who has let
go of you. He does not love you and
does not value having you. Believe
me, he will not let go if he really
loves you. There is another reason he
is not willing to tell.

Do not look for reasons why he ended
the relationship.

There is only one reason why he ended
your relationship. He just does not
love you. Do not waste your time
thinking of reasons or what you should
have done. Move on and be open to a
man who will truly love you.

Do not get hung up on your past.

What happened with your ex was not
your fault. It was not because you
didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t
make him happy enough.

Do not look into images.

Always have your own set of rules.

Set your limits on how far you’d go
for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give
and do everything as long as it’s
worth it. And it’s worth it if the
guy is treating you right.

Do not be scared to lose him.

Don’t be scared that he’ll break up
with you. Once you are afraid of
losing him, you easily can be taken
advantage. Be strong and if something
is unacceptable, do not accept it and
speak up.

There is a guy who will value you.

There is a guy out there who can make
you feel valued, appreciated, and
loved. And I mean, not just during
your first few weeks together. So
don’t lose hope. There is a man out
there who can and will love you just
the way you are.

Also, do not believe him when he says
it’s just the way he really is. He’s
not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks
together? Where has that sweet guy
gone? He simply is not that into you
anymore.

Always be the only one, no matter what.

Do not ever fall for a guy who has
another girl, be it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl that he says
he just can’t get rid of for whatever
reason. If you truly believe that he
loves you and for some reason, he
can’t leave or let go of another girl,
then you are no different from any
ordinary mistress.

He must respect you.

No matter how long the relationship
has been, he should always show
respect towards you.

If he fooled you, end it.

Philandering once is enough. You can
never trust nor respect the person
again.

Never start a relationship the wrong
way.

Do not force yourself into a
relationship.

Do not settle.

If you are not happy anymore with your
relationship, break up instantly. He
will not stay with you forever no
matter how upright he might seem to
be. Eventually, he will also want love
and happiness in his life.

A relationship has to have love.

Love is the only thing that will push
you to give your efforts into making
the relationship work.

Keeping a relationship requires
genuine efforts of both parties.

Do not settle.

Love without limits.

Whether you loved and gave everything
or loved but held out for some things,
if the relationship ends, you still
get hurt. But if you gave your
everything, you were happy and you
could say that it was worth it. If
you didn’t give your all, you get hurt
for nothing.

You will get over him.

Love is over-stated. Love eventually
ends and you are free to love another.

Be the one.

Act like you are the one. Don’t give
in to him too easily. Make him treat
you as important. Don’t be easy.

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thou we wanted things to be ‘perfectly’ this way, sometimes we barely cant see or we get rid of reality.

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4 thoughts on “what woman should know

  1. LuLi

    this is a good guide for reiterating self respect.. sometimes the woman of today is too submissive and accommodating, and some people will take advantage of that.. nice post =]

  2. tnx luli for dropping by… its true that sometimes we need to think of ourselves first so that others will see our value…

  3. Naku Yhen mahirap umibig, pero kailangang harapin ang buhay. You are right it’s only love that allows us to become part of other’s life. Sometimes it hurts, but that’s part of the game. No pain no glory. Ganda ang bahay mo, pasyal ka naman sa amin…

  4. hi colegiala girl, tnx for dropping by. it is indeed part of the life’s game. kaya asa sa atin o diskarte natin kung hahayaan nating magpatalo at masaktan. haaay life…

    nwei, tnx po uli…

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