Nobody waits forever!

just this morning i receive a text message on why we should cherish the people we care and love. it says “They met. But the timing isn’t right. He has his reasons and she has hers. They’re both confused. So they decided to part ways. She wants him to wait, he said he will. Whatever it takes. Years later, they saw each other again… but too much time has passed… too late to make it work. Lesson? People change, so does the heart. Seize the moment. For in truth… NOBODY WAITS FOREVER!”

tough words i said but its reality. life is full of uncertainties that is why we need to cherish every moment or chance we have to the person who matters to us most.

By Bo Sanchez

Getting married is the greatest mistake anyone can ever make.

Being wed is the height of insanity, the most ludicrous commitment, the
most totally illogical decision any human being can fall into.

Tell me. Why should I commit myself to be with one woman for the rest of
my life – and thereby reject 3.2 billion other females in the world?

Along the way, I’ll meet a girl who’ll be more beautiful, or more
intelligent, or more charming, or sexier, or holier. So why nail myself
down to one choice, permanently — and suffer the agony of simply watching
beauties pass me by?

And in western countries, one out of two marriages end up in divorce.
That blows my mind. That’s a pathetic 50% failure rate! I would never buy a
car, a stereo, a shaver, or even a nail clipper if there was a 50%chance
that it would conk out on me.I simply wouldn’t.

And why stay with one person “in sickness or in health, in riches or in
poverty, till death do us part”? Is my mind fried? If my shirt shrinks on me
because I eat too many pizzas, don’t I just throw it away and buy an XL?
(That will be the day.) And if I outgrow my ancient computer, don’t I just
look for an updated version?

And then there’s the catastrophe some call kids. I mean, I don’t really
want to wake up in the middle of the night to entertain a self-centered,
bald, toothless tyrant in diapers? Do I really want little rampaging
monsters to break the most expensive furniture in my house? Do I really
want juvenile creatures to stay on the phone for six hours straight, listen
to noise they call music that you believe came directly from hell, and mope
around uncommunicative, catatonic, and depressed because another demented
juvenile creature (a.k.a.boyfriend) hasn’t called in the passed thirty minutes?

Why should I go through the torture? Marriage is insanity.

But few years ago, on my 32nd birthday, I gave myself a special birthday
gift: I got married to a lovely
woman — and committed myself to insane living.

Marowe is her name, the person I chose – out of 3.2 billion females.

Yes, we now have a tiny tyrant that wakes us up at night, and in the near
future, we will most likely have little monsters that will destroy our
house during playtime, and creatures from outer space that we will call


For three reasons.

FAITH. We believe that God calls us into marriage. And if HE called us
there, that means He’ll be there to meet us. We will suffer all things-just
let us be with our God.

HOPE. We confidently expect the best blessings — immeasurably much more
than all the hardship. God will bless us beyond our wildest dreams.

LOVE. Oh yes, there will be other females who’ll be more beautiful, or
more intelligent, or more this and more that. But they’ll only be just that
– females – like flowers in the field of a million hectares of flower fields.

But not this woman – my Marowe – the one beautiful flower I have personally
chosen, personally picked from her roots, personally planted in my own clay
pot, personally watered everyday, personally watched every day, and
personally loved every day. Because of my love for her, there will be no
one like her.

In my heart, she will eternally be the most beautiful flower of them all.

Because in the end, there will be only be faith, hope, and love.

And the greatest of these is LOVE.

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6 thoughts on “Nobody waits forever!

  1. ktin


  2. tnx kitin! godbless! hope you’ll cherish the moment with ur special someone habang may pagkakataon pa… hehehe!

  3. ktin

    dont wori frend…i or better say we have a lifetime to cherish every moment that we are together kahit pa magkalayo kami…kya madami pa kong pgkakataon to let him feel how important and how i love him,naks!!!…takecare oweiz…missin ur company…

  4. wow… ibang klase k tlg kitin! panalo! napaka swerte naman ni papa frodie! naks! hehehe! nwei, hope to c u soon… mis ko ndn mga gala ntn… hehehe…

  5. earthsangel

    ganda naman ng post na toh, sana ma realize din nung special someone ko that i can’t wait forever LOL.

  6. hi earthsangel, sure, he will realize your worth! keep smilin! godbless!

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