Everybody gets hooked to falling in love. Believe it or believe it, for sure nainlove ka na. but most of these love didnt last pero may mga mapapalad din naman na sa simbahan ang tuloy ng pagiibigang ito. there are so many things to consider para magtagal ang relationship niyo. and i admit ang dami ko ng nabasa. some of it did work out but some did not. para paraan nga lang yan di ba? minsan ang hirap din pag marami kang nababasang tips or secrets to sucessful relationships dahil in my experience, i tend to make things perfect or work out basing everything sa mga nababasa ko. dahil minsan diskarte ninyong dalawa if paano niyo iwowork-out yung relationship hindi dumedepende sa nababasa. nevertheless, hope ul get something from this. this was emailed to me by one of my friends. happy reading!
The guy who loves his mom will be a good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has
high respect for his mother, he will have high respect for women.
Don’t give everything away. Leave some things a mystery. Guys love
conquest. If you already give your all, wala ng something to look forward
to sa relationship nyo. And the guy will become kampante. Assure him of
your love and faithfulness, but warn him too: “umayos ka diyan! You can
lose me anytime…”.
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is
respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its
Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his
friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old
quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you’ll see
how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to
be with you all the time, tell him you cant respect a “puppy” for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there is always
something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga?
“Making love” is better than just “having sex”. And true love “waits”.
Save your precious “gift” on your wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang
mali, just because uso naman and everyone’s doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman
sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by learning
about it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung effort nyo to try will go
a looooong way to understanding him later pag may disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful.
Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend,mo, kampante ka na di ka nya
lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na
ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes
closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it’s effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.
Never think “mababago ko sya pag kami na…”. Only God can change a
person, and only if the guy wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars.
Believe in “Magic”. Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na dahilan,
o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you
love kahit magmukha ka ng ewan. The memories will be fun to recall later
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your
boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It’s healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at
natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti.
Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is
how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at
laging masaya. One big fight and that’s it! And diba mas kilig yung
malambing na… “uy, bati na tayo…”.
But don’t overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori.
Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na.
Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba’t-ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow
with it. Don’t expect him to be like nung una. ‘Coz like a student, di na
ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2. Change WILL happen… you
both will change and your love WILL change too. It’s up to you na lang if
the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth.
Grow with it.
When break up comes and it’s time to say goodbye, don’t doubt the love
just because it didn’t last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man nagtatagal,
it doesn’t mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never meant to
last forever. Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on.
Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain. Ika nga ng cute na poet
na si William Ramos (teka ako yun ah?), sa isang quote nya: “it’s when you
hurt the worse that you love the MOST.” Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag
ka na lang magmahal.
Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when
to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung
anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng
langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom.
Do things right. Di totoong masarap ang bawal gaya ng sabi ng iba. Kasi
may kabayaran yon later. Corny ang madali. Paghirapan mong gawin ang tama
at totoo and one day ikaw din ang aani ng bunga nito.
DATE IDEAS: A walk in the park, along the bay area watching the sunset,
biking sa big, open spaces, stargaze at night sa ibabaw ng bubong, jog @ 5
am and wait for the sunrise, singing with a guitar (or a walkman) under a
tree’s shade sharing hopia and siomai (yikes!). Wag lagi sa mall. Involve
nature. The best things in life pa rin ay free. Di kailangan gumasta ng
malaki para sumaya o maging romantic. Be creative.
Honesty is the best policy… ika nga ni Jimmy Santos. Pero laging nasa
timing at paraan ng pagsasabi ang technique. Pag malumanay mong sasabihin
sakin na ipagpapalit mo na ako sa iba o papatayin mo na ko sa sobrang
gigil, Gosh! Mato-touch pa ko! May lambing eh!
Don’t NAG. Sabi ng don’t nag eh! Sabi ko don’t nag, don’t nag, don’t
Yung effort, sa kahit anong gawain o effort mo ay laging 2 billion ganda
points yan. Do little surprises every now and then. PARA SO HAPPY