They say that expecting is one way of hurting ourselves.
Most of the times, people get hurt because of being so expectant. People and relationships may fail us but God is always there, he never fails.
Sometimes the reason why we hold on to something or to someone even if it’s hurting us already is because we’re afraid that something or someone like that won’t happen or come again. Sometimes we choose to love even to the extent of losing our self-esteem, respect and worth.
Little do we know that sometimes the reason why we can’t truly have what we deserve and what will really makes us complete and happy is simply because we have become so engrossed with the second best that we already have that we fail to see the best ahead of us. Letting go is really hard especially if we have become so attached to that something or someone that has a hold on us.
Life is a constant change and learning to love ourselves first is the way to loving others unselfishly. The need to love and be loved is a human nature.
In any relationship, it’s not just the heart leading but it has to go best with thinking. The pain of letting go is just at the start, sometimes it becomes even harder because we’re entertaining every thought of it that only leads to hurting ourselves more.
Learn the art of letting go by just giving it up and continue to live life without it. There are so many ways to divert our attention if we will allow ourselves to open the windows of our lives.
Happiness is a choice. If you want to be happy, be happy and if want to think otherwise then that’s what you’ll be.
With all that life has to offer, be encouraged that there is a God who is always willing to take hold of us if only we will let Him. Live life with Jesus, only then can you experience a life with life.