some issues about COMMITMENT

THE MODERN MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING (MU):

  • You stay together..
  • Do things together..
  • Spend time with each other..
  • Share everything..

except for one thing…

COMMITMENT…

** How important is commitment?? Does it really have to exist in a relationship?? I am happy with what we have.. And I guess that is all that matters for now.. No demands.. No pressures.. But when the time comes that we need each other, there is no doubt that we will be more than willing to help.. But then again, I can not help but wonder if this is what I really wanted.. If I really am contented with what we have..

it’s harmless to be with a person who has that special spark for you. laugh around, flirt a little. after all, there’s no commitment involved. it’s actually fun. if fun is really all you’re after. but believe me, it gets confusing in the long run and you’ll just sit in a corner wondering…

is this all???

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18 thoughts on “some issues about COMMITMENT

  1. commitment says all…. commitment leads respect, love, hope, trust and everything else… if there’s no commitment, everything falls to the mud.

  2. precisely…

    mhlg tlg ang commitment sa every relationship.

  3. Kimuchi

    Iyung naging asawa kong malambot na Hapon ay naubos ang commitment niya sa akin sa kakokomit hangang naubusan ng hininga.

  4. naku ms kim ibang level k tlg… gang sa huling hininga nagcommit xa.. hehehe

  5. haay… naiiyak ako… hmm miss yhen..

    You stay together..
    Do things together..
    Spend time with each other..
    Share everything..
    except for one thing…

    COMMITMENT…

  6. i heard from a friend na ang uso ngayon ay ung open-minded relationship. it only means u guys are bf/gf but the gerl can also welcome suitors and texting everyday is nt required. kumbaga bahala ka na kung gusto mo magtext or hindi.

    imho, pangit ung ganun klaseng relationship. parang hindi naman committed sa isat isa. anyways commitment for me is everything joined together as one towards a healthy and purposeful relationship bounded by the grace and mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ.. (haba noh) hahahaha

  7. mhrap tlg to kuya gmac… as in.. sakit sa ulo. saikt sa puso.. hehehe!!!

  8. Ah, commitment…

    You won’t be able to commit to anything if you try to commit to everything. Be willing to say no to the things that are not really important, and you’ll be able to say yes, in a big way, to those things that are most meaningful.

    A few, carefully selected, quality commitments will bring much more value to your life than a whole calendar full of shallow, relatively meaningless ones. The depth and meaning of life’s experiences matter more than the sheer volume of them.

  9. Just because you’re busy doesn’t necessarily mean you’re making real progress. Take some time to consider just where all that activity is taking you.

    Life is filled with all sorts of wonderful opportunities for real fulfillment. There’s no need to grab at everything that happens to come by.

    Every single day is precious and unique. Spend each day moving life forward in a personally meaningful way.

    Choose your commitments with care and grace, with love and purpose. Then you can truly know the joy of giving yourself fully to them.

  10. In a commitment, the more effort you give, the more you expose yourself to the possibility of disappointment. But that is certainly no reason to avoid the effort.

    The more love you give, the more you expose yourself to the possibility of being hurt. Yet it would hurt infinitely more to have never given any love.

  11. Sure, life has its pitfalls. The key is not to avoid them out of fear, but to overwhelm them with positive purpose.

    For effort, while it can sometimes bring disappointment, more often brings great accomplishment. And love, while it can bring heartbreak, more often brings a level of fulfillment that cannot be matched.

    In our commitment to somebody, every experience, no matter what the outcome, adds richness and depth to your life. With the positive moments you build joy, and with the difficult times you build strength.

    Engage yourself fully in the details of living, and with each day you add value to your life that cannot be taken away. Be an active, enthusiastic participant in this day, and you’ll come away from it with real, lasting treasure.

  12. Mer Pints

    Kahit mag-asawa na hindi pa rin ganap na naisasakatuparan ang sinasabing commitment na iyan. Hindi ito one shot deal. If you think so you’ll only get frustrated yourself. Dynamic iyan lumalago at kung minsan nagkukulang din. Isa ding proceso ito ng relationship magasawa man o magkaibigan. Mababaw na dahilan ang marriage para masabi mong may commitment. Nakikita ang commitment sa pagsasama ninyong dalawa. It takes personal maturity to experience commitment. It takes a strong relationship with God to seal it up.

    Pero kung palagi lang ng magsisipilyo, naliligo, at nagpapalit ng damit, mabango na, wala nang putok, wala nang balakubak, wala nang kurikong, laging nakamanicure ang mga kuko sa paa si Banong, baka sasagutin ko na siya, hehehehehe. And the last but not the least makapagtitiis siya ng short time courtship, mga sampung taon lang naman, and another 20 years before he could marry me, hehehehehe.

  13. wow sir joe, ang lalim naman ng konsepto mo ng commitment. dko maarok.

    Love this line sir joe “Engage yourself fully in the details of living, and with each day you add value to your life that cannot be taken away. Be an active, enthusiastic participant in this day, and you’ll come away from it with real, lasting treasure.”

  14. “Dynamic iyan lumalago at kung minsan nagkukulang din.” this is precisely wat commitment is all about. flexible xa depends on the people involve. tnx for this line mer.

    nwei, goodluck nalang ke banong sa pag aantay. sa langit nalang siguro kayo magkikita. hehehe!

  15. Nung araw meron akong girlfriend, na mahal ko talaga pero walang comi-commitment ke magkita kami in 2 or 3 weeks o hindi ok lang. PERO…meron din akong girlfriend sa office, sa kapitbahay, sa beerhouse, meron pa sa Hawaii. Isang linggo nga ang Valentine’s date ko. One day, nahiya na rin ako sa kalokohan ko. Tinapat ko siya saka sinabi ko “ayoko na kitang maging girlfriend, ang tagal na natin lagi na lang ganito, I’m sorry”.

    Ikinasal kami that year and ever since siya na lang ang babae sa buhay ko. 15 years ago. Today, that is still my commitment.

  16. cocoy826

    Iyan ang pinagsishan ko ang Commitment.
    Iyan dina ng dahilan ng pagkawala ng matalik kong kaibigan.Mahal na mahal niya ang syota niya,ng nakakita ng de kotse at mayaman ay nakisakay sa kotse at hindi na siya binalikan,Palsong pag-ibig pala kaya ng commit siya sa sarili niya na hindi na umibig pang muli dahil uminom ng lason.

  17. maganda pala story ng life mo tongue twisted. bakit nag kai kaya maramng babaero, they cant stick to only one.

    kaasar. ako din biktima ng babaero… hahahha. nagconfesss… xa xa akalain mong sa gnda kong to. hahaha

    nwei, tnx for sharing uli.

  18. ay napakasaklap naman niyan sir cocoy. mantakin mong may ganung isyu.

    sana nmn sa kabila ng mga paglolokong yan ay matauhan na sila.

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