abot-tanaw na pag ibig…

The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never to far to feel the love deep with in your being. To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find her own happiness without expecting her to comeback. letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you. but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. you may found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what is reality is today.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. if you lose love today its doesn’t mean that you failed in love.
Cry, If you have to, but make it sure that the tears washed away the hurt and the bitterness that the past had left with you.

Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.
And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

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20 thoughts on “abot-tanaw na pag ibig…

  1. I used to believe in what you said.. but unfortunately I have seen love drift away from so many people’s lives because they are far away… including myself.. distance comes in the way … somehow .. the person you love finds the companionship in someone else … and it sucks then to have that empty feeling

  2. Move on if you lost your love.You are not mean for each other.It’s exciting to experience different things.HIHIHIHIHIHI

  3. Hindi ako sang-ayon sa long-distance relationship. Kasi, sooner or later, mas malaki ang maibibigay nitong problema. In my opinion, it is worth much more to keep two loving people together than to work on keeping the love when they’re far apart. Sabi nga ng kasabihan (na hindi ko na matandaan kung saan ko unang nabasa) at ipa-paraphrase ko na lang: When two people are in love, their joy is doubled and their sorrow is halved. So, if that is the case, mas masarap yung magkasama kayo.

  4. Sa totoo lang, biktima rin ako ng ‘long distance’ relationship. Sa tingin ko, mahirap itong i-maintain. In any relationship, both sides has to do her/his part to keep it alive.

  5. cocoy826

    Pasensya na kung hindi ako nakakadalaw ng madalas.May ipinakontrata kasi si mestisang labas ang dila sa akin.

  6. Niyaz

    Such a great thought from u yhen !! alwyz i’m trying to move frm d past experiences.

  7. @ the deep, guess u speak from your experiences. theres nothing wrong in believing and yes theres also nothing wrong if u dont believe… life is always a matter of choices. wat u choose wil make who u are. LDR only succeeds if and only if the people involved chooses to make it succeed.

    tama ka rin ms kim, if d man nagtagumpay then u have to move on na. huwag ipagpilitan ang hindi pwede. dahil naniniwala ako maghiwalay man kayo ng sampung beses kung kayo talaga ay para sa isat isa magiging kayo parin.

    hi jose, wat if u and ur love one is meant to be a LDR and u do not agree with such relationship, wud u give up your love for her?

    hi dinapinoy, tama ka rin na mahirap imaintain ang LDR but as long as pareho kayong willing mahirapan for the sake of love i think it will work.

    hi sir cocoy, ayos lang po nauunawaan ko po ang pagkabz mo… cge asikasuhin mo n yung pinirmahan mong kontrata…

    thnx niyaz and i just hope that u have really moved on from your past. “Make peace with your past, so it wont mess up the present.”

    have a nice day everyone!

  8. Hi, Yhen! Sa tanong mo kung LDR lang talaga ang sitwasyon namin at kung isasakripisyo ko ang pagmamahal ko sa kanya alang-alang lang sa aking paniwala, ang sagot ko ay: Hindi. I will not give up my love for her. I will move any mountain just to be with her. I know, ma-drama. But if I am already sure about how I really feel about her, I will definitely do my verrry best to keep us together.

  9. naniwala ako sa LDR dati at hanggang ngayon gusto ko pa rin maniwala.
    sa akin kasi nasa dalawang nagmamahalan yan eh.
    kahit naman magkalayo kung talagang nagmamahalan at naniniwala sa isa’t isa, bakit hindi naman ito magtatagumpay diba?
    madaling sabihin pero nagawa ko,hindi man nagtagumpay ang unang LDR ko pero masasabi ko naman na hindi ung distance ang naging dahilan nito.

    aun napdaan lang po,bloghopping.

  10. yeah i like that idea, too jose. i really do agree na kapag mahal mo ipaglaban mo, kapag mahal mo lahat hahamakin mo, thou this sounded like a cliche or perhaps mga sinaunang paniniwala para sa akin totoo pa rin ang mga katagang ito.

    salamat po sa pagdaan.

  11. salamat sa iyong ibinahagi s3cr3et.

    gusto kitang batiin sa matagumpay mong pagtahak sa LDR. kakaunti na lang ang naniniwala sa ganitong scenario, gayunpaman ikaw ay isang huwaran at patotoo na ito ay posibleng mangyari parin. tulad ng sabi choice yan. kung pinili niyo itong magwork out magwowork out ito pero kung pinili niyo itong igive up maglalaho ang relasyon niyo.

    ganun lang kasimple ang bagay bagay.

  12. s3cr3t

    salamat,yhen.
    i-link kita ha?

  13. ok s3cr3t… pasyal ka lang dito pag wala kang magawa…😉

  14. malou

    After masaktan…. mahirap mag move on but you need too. You need to let Go and Let God. Be better not bitter and am sure good person/things will come your way.

  15. malou

    I dont like LDR. I want sonebody na nandyan hindi man malapit sa akin pero kapag kailangan ko siya nandyan lang. May mga pagkakataon na kahit walang sasabihin sa yo ang isang tao basta nandiyan lang siya sa tabi mo OK ka na.

  16. hi ms malou… actually mahirap talaga ang LDR pero mas masaya nga talaga yung sitwasyon na anjan lang ang mahal mo sa tabi mo…

    minsan kasi we tend to find kalinga talaga and its human nature.

    pero yun nga ano mang mangyari kung kayo kayo… hehe

  17. hindi rin po ako sangayon sa long distance relationship hindi dahil sa karamihan nang relasyon na ganun ay dahil nangyari na sa akin din. pero meron naman mangilan ngilan na nagiging ok ung relationship. trsut lang naman yan eh.

  18. si kengkay at si kengkoy ay bunga ng long distance relationship🙂 two years kaming LDR at ang sarap ng mga taong iyon pero sempre mas masarap ang mga taong hindi na kami LDR

  19. wayneman5

    Hi, yhen. What you are describing here is a perfect example of “forsaking” that our Savior Christ spoke about. He said that we must forsake sometimes those closest to us from our old-nature first life–family, old friends doing the same old things that do not glorify God…A lot of people think that this “forsaking” is turning-our-back on someone or deserting someone. No. Christ “forsook” all first and we know that He is pure Love Incarnate. It means that we, like you said, give space to that person, especially a person who may be standing in our way of getting closer to God. We give them back to God in love and we let them not rule over us. Check out the passage where He talks about it in Mt. 19: 27-30….Thank you, yhen, finally for your seeking and sharing heart. There are not many of those kind of hearts out there. And thanks for putting “Immortality Road” on your blog roll. Love in Christ, Wayneman

  20. hmmm pansin ko po maraming ayaw maniwala sa LDR nwei ganun talaga lalo na kapag ikaw mismo na experience mo ito at hindi nagtagumpay. pero minsan pag pag-ibig ang dumali kahit anong ayaw mo sa isang sitwasyon mapapa oo ka nalang.

    wel c ms kengkay isang patotoo na pwede o posibleng magtagumpay ang LDR pero karamihan parin eh natatakot.

    kuya gmac salamat uli sa pagbahagi.

    tnx also wayne for the sharing.

    godbless everyone!

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