Elisabeth Elliot says that she is
often asked the question, What
can I do to get him to notice me?
Note carefully the advice she gives.
My answer is “nothing.” That is,
nothing toward the man.
Don’t call him. Don’t write a
little note with a smiley face or a
flower or a fish under the signature
and put it in his campus mailbox.
Don’t sidle up to him in the hall and
gasp, “I’ve just got to talk to you!”
Don’t look woebegone, don’t ignore
him, don’t pursue him, don’t do him
favors, don’t talk about him to nine
carefully selected listeners.
There is one thing you can do:
turn the whole business over to God.
If he’s the man God has for you, “no
good thing will he withhold from
those who walk uprightly” (Psalm
Direct your energies to obedience,
not to nailing the man. God has his
own methods of getting the two of
you together. He doesn’t need any
help or advice from you.
By changing your thinking,
you change your beliefs.
When you change your beliefs,
you change your expectations;
When you change your expectations,
you change your attitude;
when you change your attitude,
you change your behavior;
When you change your behavior,
you change your performance;
and when you change your performance,
–YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE!:)
a sisterly advice lang naman po ito sa mga girlfriends natin na single. you may or may not do it as it is your choice. however, it is really a good thing to consider the will of God first rather than pursuing our own desires. i still believe in the saying that TRUE LOVE WAITS.