the process…

I am guilty for being idle these past few days. I didn’t choose this but circumstances allowed me to think and take some time to think more. Again, i realized that healing is a process. It cannot happen in an instant or in a glimpse of an eye.

Yes, its not easy. Bidding goodbyes, letting go, breaking up…. they are all the same. It may come from a different direction but it all leads to one thing, PAIN.

However, one good thing about pain is that, I learned to trust God in everything I do, loved myself first before others and enjoyed a life beyond what I see and call life.

One night during my quiet time God said in His words The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit – Psalms 34:18

Indeed, i felt His existence during those times. This brought me peace in my heart and mind.

Moreover, I also saw how friends played their role in the healing process. They are more of the encouragers than the supporters and that’s one good thing about friendship. Aside from that they listen, comfort, pray, and make you smile (sa abot ng kanilang makakaya). Salamat sa inyo.

I would also like to personally acknowledge the following people na nagpakita ng concern (naks parang totoo eh noh!): fjordz, kuya dencio, kuya k, miss malou, darwin, machongbutiki, ax, dan, kelvin, barrycyrus, sir cocoy, lio loco, jason (pinaka matyagang dumalaw), otep, rookie, livingstain, promking, ms rossel, azul, marvin, coolwaterworks, kuya eli, at c rye na di ko alam kung matutuwa ba akong fineature niya ko sabay about goodbye ang topic… hehe.

Most especially, sa family ko kung saan nanggagaling ang strength ko. Naks. They supported me in every way. Thanks for everything Mom, Dad, Mitz, and Mj.

Ask me now if I am ok, yes I am. Life must go on.

Jeanne Achterberg once said healing is embracing what is most feared; healing is opening what has been closed, softening what has hardened into obstruction, healing is learning to trust life.

We all want instantaneous breakthrough, but it’s going to take time. And you may go through long periods, even years, feeling like you haven’t made any progress at all, but you(we) have.

No matter what our circumstance or situation is, we can choose to change. We can choose to hope. We can choose to never give up. And we can choose to move on and be happy with life. Life is a matter of choice, so let us choose what we think is best for us.

On the other hand just wanna share that lately masyado akong nahihilig sa SWEETS. Maybe this is just one way of healing- altering our depressions through eating sweets… hahaha!

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ayun, masarap talagang mabuhay literal… haha…

last week naman since tuesday eh nasa Manila ako for an exhibit at Manila Hotel kaya sinulit ko na ito hanggang weekend. kasama ko sis kong bunso na naggagala dahil na rin 10 days silang alang pasok. nagquaquarantine ang school nila sa Baguio. ehhe

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I also had a great time with my friends (officemates and former officemates) nung nagkita kita kami ng sat sa McDo infront of Trinoma Mall. Breakfast meeting ang drama namin pero get together party talaga ito…

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naglunch sa TGIF sa Trinoma…

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tapos afterwards nanuod kami ng Ice Age 3 (3D). at ng matapos naghiwa hiwalay na kmi ng landas.

at 5pm nagkaroon pa ako ng chance i meet ang mga college friends ko sa Glorietta. we planned to watch the Villa Estrella kasi si Ofir nagwowork siya sa Abs-Cbn at may complimentary ticket siya pero naisp namin mas masaya siguro magkwentuhan kaya di na kami tumuloy manuod.

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nagphoto ops nalang kami…

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tulad ni rye mag eend din ang entry ko na ito sa picture ko rin siyempre.

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o diba? masaya pa rin ang buhay. its how we handle our life. if hahayaan mong maging malungkot, malulungkot ka talaga. pero kung tutuusin ang daming rason para maging masaya. kaya wag nating hayaang maging malungkot tayo at masaktan tayo. nasa sa atin mismo ang tadhana ng buhay natin. may mga kelangang isakripisyo pero in the end para din ito sa ikabubuti natin.

We live, love, learn and move on…

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45 thoughts on “the process…

  1. yes! that’s the spirit! so love your lines here! actually, nakakatulong din sa side ko yung struggles mo in moving on… go lang!

    and regarding sa sweetss.. nakakainggit.. last week kasi nagka tonsilitis ako sa medyo iwas muna sa matatamis… hindi ko kinakaya minsan pero kailangang magpigil grrr!!!

    and regarding your last photo? Drama kung drama! Emote kung emote! Parang artista lang! Pang teleserye kung baga? hahaha! Panalo!

    • wow… so ur also undergoing the healing process huh…πŸ˜‰

      cge magtulungan nalang tayo..πŸ˜‰

      re sa last photo… ayoko namang magmoment… napilitan lang ako… haha

  2. wala ng process process…

    talong talo ng simpleng pag ngiti sa umaga ang lahat g problema!!!

    Go ate Yhen!!

    dito lang lagi ang Hamster!!!!

    naks special mention ako oh may caption pa!

    naks!

    hehehehe

    GOOD DAY!!!!

    • siyempre kaw pa… special ka sa akin eh… naks… haha…

      nwei, tnx again… nakangiti naman na ako habang nagrereply sa comment mo… hehe

  3. agree ako kay kuya jason. smile can relieve all the pains. ako smile ng smile. be happy ate Yhen. God bless.πŸ™‚

    • thanks darwin… salamat din sa mga messages mo.. naks… nakaka inspire din siya…πŸ˜‰

  4. Aba, special mention pala ako dito…πŸ˜€
    You are welcome Yhen…πŸ™‚

    Tama ka sa lahat ng sinabi mo, all summed up to life being a matter of choice…

    And everyday we do make a choice. It takes a conscious effort to choose to be happy – the same conscious effort that will take you to smile every morning… (aba may tinatago din palang seeds of wisdom itong hamster natin…)

    Kaya live on!πŸ˜€

    GBU…

  5. nabasa ko ung entry dun sa baba,..di lang naka koment nung time na yun hehe..si internet kasi nag loko haha..ayun..pero ung mga nag advice sayo ate ang galing (parang pinagdaanan na rin nila hehe)

    henway lets move on..(kris aquino at boy abundat SNN)haha

    naku naman nag laway ako sa ice cream na may choco syrup hehe..

    sayang talaga hehe…di ka nakasama hehe..
    (no.mo ba ate hehe,,pm mo na lang hehe,,..)

    basta by nekstime hahehhe..

    smile…

    • hi lovely, alam ko namang anjan ka lang sa tabi tabi… at alam ko namang may dahilan ka kaya di ka nakapagparamdam ng mga panahong yun… pero siyempre naapreciate ko pa rin yung mga times na nag yym tayo…

      salamat din sa iyo… sana makasama na ako senyo next tym… hehe naiinggit talaga ko eh…

  6. There are a lot of things to be thankful for. Glad you are still enjoying life despite of all the pain you’re going through.

    Godbless you girl!πŸ™‚

    • thanks joycee… indeed, mas marami pa ngang bagay ang dapat ipagsaya kesa ikalungkot… Godbless you too…πŸ˜‰

  7. Yhen, kaya mo yan. Seriously tho, being idle or not actually doing anything is worth doing. Time heals the wound, sabi nga. Later in your life you will realized that the hurting or breaking up will give us some positive effect. I believe in destiny.

    Those photos tells us that you’re moving on with your life or else if you tied up inside your room crying over it, for sure the cockroaches will drive you absolutely mad. You’re a fine grown up lady so explore for something good, reward yourself with FOOD. Penge!

    re: I wanna watch Villa Estrella. I hope soon, in pinoy tv channel online.

    • hehehe yeah kuya… ayoko din namang tubuan ng kamote sa loob ng kwarto diba? andami din naman kasing reason para maging happy kaya go lang ako ng go…πŸ˜‰

  8. dencios

    certain sadness in the eyes at last pic..

    anyhow live life happily. thats the keyπŸ˜€

  9. malou

    Hi, praise God that kahit slowly nakaka move on ka. Ganon talaga hindi naman kasi madali na makalimutan ang mga nangyari sa loob ng ilang taon. Pray everytime na nasasaktan ka. I dont know if we share the same feeling after praying i feel relieved &strenghtened. May mga bagay kasi na sa diyos mo lang nasasabi even if you are sorrounded by good friends di ba? Move on, isang araw mangingiti ka na kapag naalala mo ang mga bagay o tao that caused you pain. God bles…

  10. yhen WB, andami mo na namang kinain… alam mo bagay ka sa pakontest ni Mon, love kills yata title non…

    anyway mainam yan rest muna kapag kailangan…

    sana ok ka na…

  11. uy, buti naman at ayos ka na. happiness is contagious! kaya ako, hawaan mo na rin ako! yay. seriously, magandang signos yan at you are stepping some distance away from your old self.

    ganito naman talaga ang cycle. we lose things. we lose people. we lose even ourselves. pero ang mahalaga, makabalik pa rin tayo sa realidad.

    be happy ha! hehe. wag ka na mag h hiatus ulit!

    • gusto ko yung second to the last words mo… na ang mahalga eh makabalik pa rin tayo sa realidad…

      salamat ax!

      • huwaw, nagustuhan mo pala! hehe.

        so, welcome sa realidad! hehe.

        no problem, basta ikaw! hehe. yay. tatlo hehe ko. pang apat na nga yung huli eh.

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  13. wahhh! im a sucker for sweets!

    • ako di naman masyado… ngayon ngayon nga lang eh… hehehe… epekto lang talaga…. haha

  14. hi yhen, di ko alam kung ano ang nangyari sayo these past few days pero sana ok na yon kung anuman yon..ingat lagi at ganyan talaga ang buhay minsan di natin alam kung bakit kelangan mangyari yon and later on malalaman natin na tama lang pala ang nangyari dahil mas gumanda ang situation..god bless you sis…

  15. Aba aba aba!!!

    anong kaguluhan yung nasa taas na nabasa ko!

    hehehehhe

    pumapalakpak tenga ko!

    joke

    oi ate yhen sorry na
    sasama ka namin sa next EB

    pramis

    hehehehehehe

    magandang hating gabi!!!!!

    aWWWWWWWWWWWWOOOOOOOOOOO

  16. take life one day at a time…sometime soon, in the future, you will look back at this phase in your life. and with all the pain you’ve been through, you will chuckle and smile at the mess you thought you have become. tapos maiisip mo, “dang! nakaya ko yun?”. look forward to it.πŸ™‚

    • yeah ryt… lahat to ay parte ng buhay… to make us stronger and tougher…

      mga bagay na to ay tatanawin nalang balang araw para maging gabay sa ating buhay…πŸ˜‰

      salamat!

  17. Live to the fullest yhen! God will give us strengths!πŸ™‚

  18. that’s the spirit yhen. tama, magpakasaya kesa magmukmok. marami ang nagmamahal sa yo at mayaman ka sa kaibigan.

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