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LET GO AND LET GOD

LET GO AND LET GOD

“Let Them Go”
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you, let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean, hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody who left. The Bible said that they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. (1 John 2:19)

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.

Let them go.

It doesn’t mean that they are a bad person; it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when peoples’ part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!

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LAB 103: Magparaya ka…

how many of us are still carrying grudges in our hearts? naniniwala ka ba na before you can fall in love again eh you have to leave the past first? minsan kasi nagiging panakip butas nalang natin ang paghahanap ng bago para makalimutan ang masakit na nakaraan pero ang di natin alam mas lalo tayong nakukulong sa katotohanang hindi pa rin natin natanggap na tayo ay nasaktan. magiging masaya naman tayo ng panandalian pero hanggat di natin inaayos at sinesettle ang ating mga sarili at ang ating mga puso eh wala talagang mangyayari.

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don’t want you to try to talk another person
into staying with you, loving you, calling you,
caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached
to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.
Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person,

it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your
story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over.
Let me tell you something.
I’ve got the gift of good-bye.
It’s the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.

It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He’ll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t
belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains …
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth…
LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you …
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction …
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer
meets your needs or talents ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude…
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better…
LET IT GO!!!

If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to
take you to a new level in Him…
LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship….
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves..
LET IT GO!!!

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed ….
LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying “take
your hands off of it,” then you need to…
LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past.
Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!!
LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then
LET IT GO!!!

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the art of letting go

They say that expecting is one way of hurting ourselves.
Most of the times, people get hurt because of being so expectant. People and relationships may fail us but God is always there, he never fails.

Sometimes the reason why we hold on to something or to someone even if it’s hurting us already is because we’re afraid that something or someone like that won’t happen or come again. Sometimes we choose to love even to the extent of losing our self-esteem, respect and worth.

Little do we know that sometimes the reason why we can’t truly have what we deserve and what will really makes us complete and happy is simply because we have become so engrossed with the second best that we already have that we fail to see the best ahead of us. Letting go is really hard especially if we have become so attached to that something or someone that has a hold on us.

Life is a constant change and learning to love ourselves first is the way to loving others unselfishly. The need to love and be loved is a human nature.

In any relationship, it’s not just the heart leading but it has to go best with thinking. The pain of letting go is just at the start, sometimes it becomes even harder because we’re entertaining every thought of it that only leads to hurting ourselves more.

Learn the art of letting go by just giving it up and continue to live life without it. There are so many ways to divert our attention if we will allow ourselves to open the windows of our lives.

Happiness is a choice. If you want to be happy, be happy and if want to think otherwise then that’s what you’ll be.

With all that life has to offer, be encouraged that there is a God who is always willing to take hold of us if only we will let Him. Live life with Jesus, only then can you experience a life with life.

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why I need to let go???

That is the question that popped into my mind when i lost my phone. I found out why i need to let it go. Posted below are the reasons why. Yes, its hard to let go of something or someone but sometimes God is teaching us lesson not to be dependent on others or on material things but to Him alone.

It’s painful and it’s bitter but in time it will heal. Whatever that is happening God has always a purpose and a reason. we may not see it at times but we will experience it in time.

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to…LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains …LET IT GO!!!

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth ..LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you … LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge…LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction … LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents… LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude…LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better… LET IT GO!!!

If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new
level in Him… LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship….LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves…LET IT GO!!!

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed…. LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying “take your hands off of it,” then you need to… LET IT GO!!!

** Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for us!!! – (Isaiah 43:18&19)

TO GOD BE THE GLORY(“,)

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surviving HARD-KNOCKS

After entering a life full of pains and struggles or simply the hard-knocks in my life, I have learned that it is important to consider your self first before anything else.

I think it is never a bad idea to think of ourselves first in certain situations… especially when it deals with our feelings and emotions. Forgiving doesn’t necessarily mean you have forgotten, letting go doesn’t absolutely mean you have fallen out of love…

Giving time to myself, alone, is just my way of saying I grew tired of pain, of misery, and of things that didn’t work out.

It’s really not bad to choose a serene life over a painful one.

We all know that all of us have heartbreaks to bear-from parental issues, broken relationships, friendship feuds to our very own fights with ourselves. What matters is we were given that specific heartache for a reason and more importantly, we wouldn’t be given that particular problem if we couldn’t overcome it.

Yes, it is true that if you don’t want to get hurt, you should listen to your mind instead of your heart and you’ll know I am right…

Yes, you will never get hurt… but you’ll never be happy.

Somehow, there are point in our lives that we really need to let go and say goodbye for a while as what the quotation says “never beg people to stay against their will… sometimes the gift of goodbye opens up another door… move on, but never move away…”

Life may sometimes be harsh utmost but it can be beautiful to the extremes. God allow things to happen because He knows we can survive it. If we were able to survive things we will serve as a living testimony to inspire others that life given by God is really a beautiful life and we must live to its fullest.


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let me go (please)

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To “let go” means not to worry about the future, but look forward to what might happen

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To “let go” is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another.

To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To “let go” is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.

To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.

To “let go” is not to intrude, worry or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.

To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To “let go” is to fear less, and love more.

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