Posts Tagged With: love month


since it is still february, i would like to dedicate this entry to my parents. without their love we (me and my sisters) could’nt be here. naks… hehe! actually we made this video for their 25th wedding anniversary last december 25, 2008.

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LAB 107: and the greatest of them all is LOVE

1 Corinthians 13:4-13

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

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LAB 106: WORDS of WISDOM [to my friends…]

a forwarded message from my inbox caught me this morning. it may affect you or it may not, nevertheless, i will just share it.

To My Friends Who Are………..SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But
if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can
make you happy but often it hurts, but love’s only special when you give it
to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

To My Friends Who Are…………NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s ‘perfect person.’ It’s about
finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

To My Friends Who Are…………PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say ‘I love you’ if you don’t care. Never talk about feelings if they
aren’t there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look
in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is
to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall and it works
both ways…

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Elisabeth Elliot says that she is
often asked the question, What
can I do to get him to notice me?
Note carefully the advice she gives.

My answer is “nothing.” That is,
nothing toward the man.
Don’t call him. Don’t write a
little note with a smiley face or a
flower or a fish under the signature
and put it in his campus mailbox.
Don’t sidle up to him in the hall and
gasp, “I’ve just got to talk to you!”
Don’t look woebegone, don’t ignore
him, don’t pursue him, don’t do him
favors, don’t talk about him to nine
carefully selected listeners.
There is one thing you can do:
turn the whole business over to God.
If he’s the man God has for you, “no
good thing will he withhold from
those who walk uprightly” (Psalm

Direct your energies to obedience,
not to nailing the man. God has his
own methods of getting the two of
you together. He doesn’t need any
help or advice from you.

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after the art of letting go, cguro naman its tym to move on and love again.. naks naman! hehe! so ito read on and learn if anong mga test na ang napagdaan niyo sa buhay pag-ibig na kinakarir mo ngayon. at kung wala ka namang lablyp ngayon atlis alam mo nang isolb di ba at solusyunan.

From the book Love, Sex & Lasting Relationships by Chip Ingram

___ 1. The Test of Time. Love benefits and grows through time; infatuation ebbs and diminishes with time. Are you in a rush to label certain feelings “love,” or do you have other words to describe these feelings? Do you save the word love for something better than feelings? If you find yourself “falling in love” often and early, only to be later disappointed, perhaps remembering this first test of real love will save you future heartache.

___ 2. The Test of Knowledge. Love grows out of an appraisal of all the known characteristics of the other person. How well do you expect to know the person you marry? Or how well do you know your spouse? Infatuation quickly decides it knows everything it needs to know. Genuine love creates an atmosphere of such interest that the other person opens like a flower.

___ 3. The Test of Focus. Genuine love is other-person centered. Infatuation is self-centered. In your most important relationships, to what degree is your attention focused on what you are receiving from them and to what degree is your attention focused on meeting the other’s needs?

___ 4. The Test of Singularity. Genuine love is focused on only one person. An infatuated individual may be “in love” with two or more persons simultaneously. In what ways have you realized that it’s much easier to work on problems in an existing relationship where singularity and faithfulness are maintained than to create a whole new set of problems with another person?

___ 5. The Test of Security. Genuine love requires and fosters a sense of security and feelings of trust. An infatuated individual seems to have a blind sense of security, based upon wishful thinking rather than careful consideration; infatuation is blind to problems. Security grows and flows out of deep awareness of the other person’s character, values, and track record.
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LAB 103: Magparaya ka…

how many of us are still carrying grudges in our hearts? naniniwala ka ba na before you can fall in love again eh you have to leave the past first? minsan kasi nagiging panakip butas nalang natin ang paghahanap ng bago para makalimutan ang masakit na nakaraan pero ang di natin alam mas lalo tayong nakukulong sa katotohanang hindi pa rin natin natanggap na tayo ay nasaktan. magiging masaya naman tayo ng panandalian pero hanggat di natin inaayos at sinesettle ang ating mga sarili at ang ating mga puso eh wala talagang mangyayari.

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don’t want you to try to talk another person
into staying with you, loving you, calling you,
caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached
to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.
Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person,

it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your
story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over.
Let me tell you something.
I’ve got the gift of good-bye.
It’s the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.

It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He’ll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t
belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ..

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains …

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth…

If someone has angered you …

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction …

If you are holding on to a job that no longer
meets your needs or talents ..

If you have a bad attitude…

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better…

If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to
take you to a new level in Him…

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship….

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves..

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed ….

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying “take
your hands off of it,” then you need to…

Let the past be the past.
Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then

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LAB 102: “MU na ba tayo?”


and i do agree to what it says. stop believing in MU because there is no such thing.

I was surfing the net one time, searching for thoughts about the MU fever then i came acrossed these lines from a confused blogger.


“ano ba talaga?!? hayy!ang gulo talaga… unfair di ba?!? di mo alam kung anong status nyo…your doing things na parang kayo, pero hindi…”

This could be the same thing some of you are experiencing toward your friend, bestfriend, klasmeyt or katrabaho. “Love ba talaga ‘to?” At the back of your mind, you’re confused.

MU or Mutual Understanding has become a fad in our culture today particularly for teenagers and singles out there. You can hear different stories over and over again MU for ilang months of texting, blogging, chatting, and friendster update after that break na! Iba nman, are prolonging the agony of being attached with someone. Don’t know where they are going? How will their relationship work? In other words, magulong usapan!

The truth is… there is no such thing as MU in a relationship. WHY? Ito kasi ang defense mechanism ng mga taong ayaw ng COMMITMENT. They’re running away from a nerve breaking attachment and responsibility? Instead of being committed, kumitid ang brains nila to comprehend what should be done in a right way. Commitment o Mukhang Unggoy na lang?

Commitment is pledging yourself to a certain purpose and doing it consistently. Moving away from it, ruins your relationship with others and eventually your own life!

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since february is a love month, i will see to it na may usapang pag-ibig ang topic natin ngayong buwan. tapos lagyan ko rin ng kaunting human interest kahit papano. para sa unang salvo ay ang mahiwagang kasabihang ito na tagos sa laman:


u find the perfect love, but in a wrong time.

u find the perfect person, but he/she is not in love with you.

u find the perfect one, but you must be loyal to someone else.

u got the perfect looks, but no one takes you seriously.

u met the perfect personality, but ur bound to be just friends.

u got brains, but you got a frail heart.

u find the courage, but its just too late.

ur ready to love, but u dont know where to start.

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