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ano ba naman yan?!!!

Ang Modernong MU:

1. You stay together

2. You do things together

3. Spend time with each other

4. Share everything

except for one thing: COMMITMENT!!!

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LAB 106: WORDS of WISDOM [to my friends…]

a forwarded message from my inbox caught me this morning. it may affect you or it may not, nevertheless, i will just share it.

To My Friends Who Are………..SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But
if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can
make you happy but often it hurts, but love’s only special when you give it
to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

To My Friends Who Are…………NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s ‘perfect person.’ It’s about
finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

To My Friends Who Are…………PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say ‘I love you’ if you don’t care. Never talk about feelings if they
aren’t there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look
in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is
to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall and it works
both ways…

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LAB 103: Magparaya ka…

how many of us are still carrying grudges in our hearts? naniniwala ka ba na before you can fall in love again eh you have to leave the past first? minsan kasi nagiging panakip butas nalang natin ang paghahanap ng bago para makalimutan ang masakit na nakaraan pero ang di natin alam mas lalo tayong nakukulong sa katotohanang hindi pa rin natin natanggap na tayo ay nasaktan. magiging masaya naman tayo ng panandalian pero hanggat di natin inaayos at sinesettle ang ating mga sarili at ang ating mga puso eh wala talagang mangyayari.

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don’t want you to try to talk another person
into staying with you, loving you, calling you,
caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached
to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.
Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person,

it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your
story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over.
Let me tell you something.
I’ve got the gift of good-bye.
It’s the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.

It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He’ll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t
belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ..

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains …

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth…

If someone has angered you …

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction …

If you are holding on to a job that no longer
meets your needs or talents ..

If you have a bad attitude…

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better…

If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to
take you to a new level in Him…

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship….

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves..

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed ….

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying “take
your hands off of it,” then you need to…

Let the past be the past.
Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then

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I Believe

Author Unknown

I Believe…
That just because two people argue,doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
And just because they don’t argue,doesn’t mean they do love each other.

I Believe…
That we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I Believe…
That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe…
That true friendship continues to grow, even the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I Believe….
That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I Believe…
That it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I Believe…
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe…
That you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I Believe…
That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I Believe…
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe…
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe…
That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe…
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I Believe…
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe…
That sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe…
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I Believe…
That it isn’t always enough,to be forgiven by others.Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe…
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I Believe…
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,but, we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe…
That you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life Forever.

I Believe…
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I Believe…
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.

I Believe…
That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you – you will find the strength to help.

I Believe…
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe…
The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything 🙂
we just make the most of everything.

“Some things are true whether you believe them or not. ” – City of Angels

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got this one from an email… and i really felt sad after reading it. very compromising naman ito… ito yong mga exenang If Only… pwede niyo ring irelate ito sa song ni Bugoy (PDA Champ) na PAANO NA KAYA. nwei, go ahead read it and dont forget to leave your comments or kung anumang hinaing ninyo sa buhay… hehehehe!

They’re good friends, really good friends.

th_boy_girlHe’s a great guy. Amazing actually. A few people see him as the “guy who always messes up” but the truth is he makes things better. He’s a good friend; always there when you have a problem, takes care of you when you’ve had too much to drink, gives you his umbrella even if he needs it more than you do, makes you laugh, makes you cry when he makes you laugh too much… and the best reason why he’s so remarkable, you can cry on his shoulders anytime you want. He won’t stop you from crying but he always gives you the feeling that everything will be alright.

She’s okay. Quite quiet, reserved but not really. Many people think that she’s the type of person that no one can truly understand but they’re wrong. Like him, she’s a pretty dependable person. She helps with just about anything that sometimes she forgets a lot of stuff yet that is what her friends like about her. She makes fascinating stories that she doesn’t want anyone to read, she loves kids and kids love her back, very generous and one great thing about her, she’s a good listener. She doesn’t give paramount advices still, in some way, you get the most comfortable feeling when she listens.

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why women love men? (y nga ba? hehe!)

Because they can’t fake an orgasm, even if they wanted to.

Because they will never understand us, yet even so they go on trying.

Because they still manage to see our beauty, even when we ourselves no longer believe it.

Because they understand equations, politics, maths and economics, but not the feminine heart.

Because they are lovers who only rest when we have had (or pretend to have had) pleasure.

Because they manage to raise sport to something bordering on religion.

Because they are never afraid of the dark.

Because they insist on fixing things that are beyond their capacity, and dedicate themselves to this with the same enthusiasm as an adolescent, and get frustrated when they don’t succeed.

Because they are like pomegranates: most of them is impossible to digest, but the seeds are delicious.

Because they never comment on what the neighbors might think.

Because we always know what they are thinking, and when they open their mouth they say exactly what we imagined they would.

Because they never dreamed of torturing themselves wearing high heels.

Because they love to explore our body and conquer our soul.

Because a 14-year-old girl can leave them speechless, and a 25-year-old woman can tame them quite effortlessly.

Because they are always attracted by extremes: the opulent or the ascetic, warriors or monks, artists or generals.

Because they do absolutely everything possible to try to hide their weaknesses.

Because a man’s biggest fear is not being a man (it never crosses a woman’s mind not to be a woman).

Because they always eat everything on their plate, and don’t feel guilty about it.

Because they take great delight in completely uninteresting matters, such as what happened at work, or different makes of automobiles.

Because they have shoulders where we can rest our heads and sleep without much effort.

Because they are at peace with their bodies, except for small, insignificant things like growing bald and getting fat.

Because they are incredibly courageous in front of insects.

Because they never lie about their age.

Because despite everything they try to demonstrate, they can’t live without a woman.

Because when we tell one of them “I love you”, they always ask us to explain exactly how.

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