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LAB 103: Magparaya ka…

how many of us are still carrying grudges in our hearts? naniniwala ka ba na before you can fall in love again eh you have to leave the past first? minsan kasi nagiging panakip butas nalang natin ang paghahanap ng bago para makalimutan ang masakit na nakaraan pero ang di natin alam mas lalo tayong nakukulong sa katotohanang hindi pa rin natin natanggap na tayo ay nasaktan. magiging masaya naman tayo ng panandalian pero hanggat di natin inaayos at sinesettle ang ating mga sarili at ang ating mga puso eh wala talagang mangyayari.

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don’t want you to try to talk another person
into staying with you, loving you, calling you,
caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached
to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.
Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person,

it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your
story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over.
Let me tell you something.
I’ve got the gift of good-bye.
It’s the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.

It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He’ll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t
belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains …
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth…
LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you …
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction …
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer
meets your needs or talents ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude…
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better…
LET IT GO!!!

If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to
take you to a new level in Him…
LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship….
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves..
LET IT GO!!!

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed ….
LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying “take
your hands off of it,” then you need to…
LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past.
Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!!
LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then
LET IT GO!!!

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LAB 101: IRONIES

since february is a love month, i will see to it na may usapang pag-ibig ang topic natin ngayong buwan. tapos lagyan ko rin ng kaunting human interest kahit papano. para sa unang salvo ay ang mahiwagang kasabihang ito na tagos sa laman:

FRUSTRATING REALIZATIONS

u find the perfect love, but in a wrong time.

u find the perfect person, but he/she is not in love with you.

u find the perfect one, but you must be loyal to someone else.

u got the perfect looks, but no one takes you seriously.

u met the perfect personality, but ur bound to be just friends.

u got brains, but you got a frail heart.

u find the courage, but its just too late.

ur ready to love, but u dont know where to start.

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life goes on…

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Sometimes, dahil sa mga pangyayari sa buhay mo kung saan you’ve been heart broken o nasimulang masugatan ang puso mo maraming mga bagay ang nagsisimulang kumausap sa iyo. Words na kadalasan ay nagsusumigaw kung ano ba dapat mong gawin. Kung necessary ba na magmove on ka, magpakatanga, o maniwala at sumunod sa mga naririnig mo at nababasa.

Siguro, this years’ love month na ang pinaka malungkot na nangyari sa buhay ko. Sabi nga nila, “things change, so does people!” Kung saan ang change na iyon eh nangyayari right away ng walang pakundangan.

Noong panahong malungkot ako ito ang nabasa ko, “No matter how bad you feel, loneliness will fade and even disappear when you focus your attention on things you’d like to explore. There’s a whole world out there. Sometimes it’s better to have time alone, to have the complete freedom to do things, without worrying about what other people will say. In the end, you don’t really have to think of yourself as a lonely person… just someone who has been given enough space to grow!” Tama nga naman, dahil sa panahong igugugol mo sa sarili mo makikita mo ang mga bagay bagay kung saan malilinawan ka at mas mag-lead pa ito sa iyo sa tamang landas.

Then, therefore I conclude that being alone sometimes gives us space to grow. Minsan kasi its hard to grow when you’re too close to someone. Sabi nga nila “trees are planted far from each other sothey can spread their branches and be mature.”

One time narealize ko din na may mga taong andiyan talaga sa tabi mo at hindi ka pababayaan. At naisip ko na “there will come a point sa buhay ko na ill get tired of chasing everyone, trying to fix everything. Its not giving up, its just a realization na hindi ko pala kailangan lahat ng taong hinahanap ko, dahil what I really need are those who stood by me even if I never needed them.”

Ngayong valentine naging malinaw sa akin na “the best part of being in love is when you just love a person and be happy about it, even if that person can never be yours, or kahit alam mong hindi siya magtatagal sa iyo.” Kasi for me “it’s the true meaning of LOVE. Its not about winning someone. Its not about owning a relationship. Its just about being happy kasi alam mo sa sarili mo na nagmahal ka.” Kung baga, “you just love and love unselfishly.”

Siyempre habang nagmomont ka at nanood ng mga palabas na makakapagpalubag loob sa iyo may natututunan ka. Isa na dito ang dialogue ni Spongebob at Patrick.

Spongebob: “What do you usually do when I’m gone?”

Patrick: “Wait for you to come back”

Hindi ba ang sweet? Sana lahat nalang ganito… pero hindi… kasi magkakaiba tayo.

At mga matinding reflections sa life ang makikita mo 1) Sometimes, God breaks our spirit to save our soul. 2) He breaks our heart para mabuo o magmature tayo. 3) He sends us pain so we can be stronger. 4) Binibigyan niya tayo ng failure so we can be humble. 5) Binibigyan din ng sakit para maalagaan natin mga sarili natin. 6) At minsan, He takes EVERYTHING away from us so we can learn the value of EVERYTHING we have.

Higit sa lahat… “the best feeling in the world is realizing you are perfectly happy without the thing you thought you needed the most” Well in fact hindi naman ganoon ang buhay. Bilog ang mundo maraming dahilan para maging masaya. Kung kaya’t kahit feeling ko medyo weak parin ako alam ko lilipas din ito…

Maligayang Araw ng mga Puso!

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Qualities of a Great Partner

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1. Happy disposition

-Look for a happy, optimistic person. Find someone who has a sense of humor and can laugh at himself/herself. True happiness springs from a content heart. Beware of the person who is only happy when you are around. You’re going to get tired of being responsible for another person’s happiness. You could end up feeling guilty when the person slips into bouts of depression. True happiness is a part of a person’s character, regardless of the circumstances.

2.Thoughtfulness

-How does your date treat his parents and yours? Chances are you’ll get treated very much the same way. Does he see things that need to be done and offer to help? Or does he put his own needs first? Does he open doors for you and wait to seat you at the table? Manners are important – and they seldom get better after marriage.

3. Not easily angered

-Temper out bursts can be the symptom of internal hostility. This hostility is often repressed during courtship as a person is trying hard to be on his best behavior. Take seriously any outbursts you observe, and check with others who have known this person in different situations to see if they have noticed this trait. The way a woman treats her younger brother may be an indication of how she will treat her husband. Be leery of the person who has not learned to express his anger in words and instead merely harbors angry feelings in his heart. Going silent and withdrawing from a loved one because of anger is unhealthy and damaging to a relationship. Be sure you date a person long enough to observe how easily he or she becomes angry and how these feelings are expressed. Ask yourself, “Is this what I want to live with for a lifetime?”

4. Willing to solve problems

-It’s almost impossible to solve relationship problems by yourself. Marry someone who will be honest enough to admit being wrong, who doesn’t have a habit of blaming others.

5. Purity

-Purity is not just an old fashioned virtue. It’s just safer to date someone who hasn’t played around. Pero don’t hold it against a person for past sexual involvement. You cannot always judge a person’s true purity by virginity alone. Mind purity is equally important. Is your date pure in his thoughts and speech, as well as behaviour? What jokes does he tell? What music does he listen to? What movies does he watch? What books or magazines does she read? Are they pure or suggestive? Mind pollution can lead to disrespect of the opposite sex.

6. Truthful

-Too ofen couples play games when they are becoming acquainted. Playing games in a relationship is a form of dishonesty. Marriage isn’t a game. It’s a serious lifetime commitment. Search your own feelings and share honestly during your courtship. Be you!

7. Accepts Responsibility

-Here are some questions that might detect irresponsibility: Does she see things that need to be done and do them? Does he volunteer to help? Does she get to places on time? Does he make lame excuses to get out of responsibilities? Does she take her talents seriously and work to improve her skills? Does he take care of his personal possessions?… Think about it. Just how responsible is the person you are dating?

8. Good Sense of Self Worth

-Often in a dating relationship, someone with a poor self-esteem may glean a sense of value from you. They become dependent on you to make them feel good. If you don’t want to live a lifetime having to tiptoe around a person’s fragile ego or having to hold yourself back for fear of how your spouse will react, then be careful not to get emotionally involved with someone.

9. Accepts you just the way you are.

-True Love is unconditional love. The important question to ask is, “Do I love her/his faults?” Only when you can truly love the total person, including all the points and bad habits, can you accept your mate for who he is and not secretly wish you could change him/her.

10. Willing to grow.

– Good marriage grow together. They encourage each other to maximize their knowledge, skills and potential. Make sure the person you date seriously is the kind of person who is open to learning and will make changes when changes need to be made.

11. Affectionate.

– The ability to express love through words and actions is vital for an intimate love relationship. Look for tender words, acts and touches that are given naturally and “appropriately” throughout the day, and not just in private.

12. Relationship with God.

– It’s very important for a marriage partner to have a personal relationship with God. Look for someone who is spiritually sensitive and willing to follow God’s law. A spirit-filled life is one filled with love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance. A person who exhibits these traits is certainly easier to live with than someone who doesn’t. What about your date/ if you’re interested in a realChristian, make sure his faith is part of his life 24 hours a day.

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dating (valentines na!)

How to Find the Right Guy

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Are you tired of the bad boys, the losers, the dead beat boyfriends? In this busy life, with all the trends and confusion, its hard for a girl to figure out what needs to be done in order to find the right guy. The good news is you don’t need any dating service to find a good man. This simple step-by-step page will help you find the right guy for you!

Steps

  1. Create a list of qualities you want in a Dream Guy, and expect to get about half on any date you go on. For example, a list may say “He Must: 1) Work on or have a higher education, 2) Have a job, 3) Have a car, 4) Treat his family with respect, 5) Refrain from drug use.” Choose traits and qualities that are important to you as this list will be a tool to better understand who you’re dating.
  2. After you create this list, open up the door! Tell any and every guy that is interested in you that you are willing to date them, friends, best friends, acquaintances even, but they must understand that they are not the only one you’re dating. This means there should be no jealousy, and no one gets hurt in the process.
  3. Schedule dates with each of the men, and keep a mental list of those qualities running in your head during the date. When you get home, check off the qualities you saw displayed, and write the gentleman’s initials next to the mark so you know which one displayed that particular quality.
  4. Continue dating and complete this process for however long you feel you need. Things may take a lot longer than you think, and the relationship may take turns you never saw coming. This step-by-step is just a spring board for you to get out and on the hunt. When you feel ready for a committed relationship, look over the list and see who has the most qualities you wanted.
  5. When you find the two best men, think over what qualities you wanted that they might not have, and decide if you can handle the fact that they don’t have those qualities. Can you handle the fact they don’t have a car? Can you handle the annoying things he does during dinner, like talk with his mouth full, slurp when he drinks, or talk too much? If yes, then don’t rule them out. Then think about how they make you feel when you’re around them. If conversation and that “spark” aren’t there then obviously it’s not right for you. If they are, then perfect.
  6. Search your heart, and make a choice, letting everyone else know that you are no longer in the market, at least not for a while. Explain to them that although you like them as a friend, and enjoyed the dates, you’re just not interested in a relationship with them.
  7. Schedule a final date with the number one guy, and discuss with him how you feel and what your intentions for the relationship in the future are, and ask him if this relationship is going to go further. Talk with him about where you want it to go, and where he sees it going, and if he truly is the one, then be willing to wait a reasonable amount of time.

Tips

  • If the date is total bomb, then bow out. Don’t suffer through it, but politely excuse yourself from the date and don’t make plans for another!
  • Be Honest and open! Honesty is the number one most important thing in any relationship. And true, if you’re breaking up with a few of the men they might be hurt, but they would rather hurt for a day or two, then stay in a relationship that is based upon false emotions.
  • Don’t cancel them out on the first date unless something totally inappropriate happens. Love needs a chance to grow, and that wont happen if you cancel out Bill from accounting just because he’s got those out of date glasses.
  • When looking for love, you need to look for the person on the inside, not the person on the outside. In this world today we focus too much on physical appearance. Bill from accounting with the old glasses might be your prince charming if you can get past the shallow tendency to look only at physical appearance. We girls like to have it all, and well, guys aren’t that good at giving it to us, but they mean well, and they try so hard.

Warnings

  • Do not get into a physical relationship unless you’ve talked it through. That doesn’t mean you need to tell all the men that you’re dating that you’re sleeping with guy number two, but make sure that guy number two understands that just because it’s physical doesn’t mean anything else. Understand as well that getting physical doesn’t mean you have to get into a serious, emotionally involved relationship.
  • Use common sense. Public places are your friend, and on the first date, agree to meet them at the restaurant. About date two or three you should be able to trust them to pick you up.
  • Never let a man order for you. By date three the gentleman should not know you well enough to order your food.

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